is the way of the Tao.\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nChapter 7 Do, Part II: Meet\r\n\r\n\r\n   The importance of intention A key aspect of moving with the Tao and having the Tao help you along in your quest is intention. Most of the techniques in this book will work regardless of your intention vis-a-vis the women you meet - anywhere from “I want to meet the love of my life” to “I want to have a one-night stand.” However, The Tao of Dating will work most effectively when you have a strong positive intention which incorporates the beliefs we discussed in Chapter 4, the most important of which being The universe is a reflection of me. So if you approach the dating arena with the attitude “Whats in it for me? What can I get out of this?,” the universe will respond by saying right back to you, “Whats in it for me?,” and you will encounter scarcity (or meet women who share the taking mindset with you). You will be much more effective if you approach with an attitude of giving and sharing: “How can I serve? How can I enrich my environment? How can I bring something to this womans world that was missing before?” The fact is that you are bringing something valuable to a womans life - your charm, your wit, your humor, your interest, your presence. One friend of mine had the attitude, “When I meet a woman, I just want to put a smile on her face.” Notice how